👤 Personal Pronouns: Subject, Object & Possessive

I/me/my, he/him/his — mastering the three pronoun forms

A1 10 min read 5 sections

Subject Pronouns

Subject pronouns replace the person or thing doing the action. English has 7 subject pronouns. Unlike German, there's no formal/informal distinction — "you" is used for everyone, whether it's your best friend or the president.

EnglishGerman EquivalentRussian EquivalentExample
IichяI live in Berlin.
you (singular)du / Sieты / ВыYou speak English well.
heerонHe is a teacher.
shesieонаShe works at a hospital.
itesоноIt is raining.
wewirмыWe are students.
you (plural)ihr / SieвыYou are all welcome.
theysieониThey are coming tomorrow.
Tip: "I" is always capitalized in English, even in the middle of a sentence. No other pronoun gets this treatment. Also, "you" is the same for one person or many — context makes the meaning clear.

Object Pronouns

Object pronouns replace the person or thing receiving the action. They come after verbs and prepositions. English doesn't distinguish between accusative and dative like German does — one object pronoun covers both.

SubjectObjectAfter verbAfter preposition
ImeShe called me.for me
youyouI see you.with you
hehimWe asked him.to him
sheherTell her.about her
ititI like it.on it
weusJoin us.with us
theythemHelp them.for them
Tip: German speakers: you're used to choosing between accusative (ihn) and dative (ihm) — English simplifies this to just "him" for both. "Ich sehe ihn" and "Ich gebe ihm" both use "him" in English.

Possessive Adjectives & Possessive Pronouns

English has two possessive forms: possessive adjectives (before a noun: "my book") and possessive pronouns (replace the noun: "The book is mine"). They look similar but serve different roles.

SubjectPossessive AdjectivePossessive PronounExample
Imyminemy car / The car is mine.
youyouryoursyour phone / It's yours.
hehishishis jacket / It's his.
sheherhersher bag / It's hers.
itits(no pronoun form)its color / —
weouroursour house / It's ours.
theytheirtheirstheir idea / It's theirs.
Tip: CRITICAL: "its" (possessive) vs "it's" (it is/it has). This is one of the most common errors in English, even for native speakers. "The dog wagged its tail" (possessive, no apostrophe). "It's raining" (= it is raining).

Reflexive Pronouns

Reflexive pronouns (myself, yourself, himself, herself, itself, ourselves, yourselves, themselves) are used when the subject and object are the same person. English uses them much less often than German.

SubjectReflexiveExample
ImyselfI taught myself to cook.
youyourselfBe careful — don't hurt yourself.
hehimselfHe introduced himself.
sheherselfShe looked at herself in the mirror.
ititselfThe cat cleaned itself.
weourselvesWe enjoyed ourselves.
theythemselvesThey prepared themselves.
Tip: German speakers: many German reflexive verbs are NOT reflexive in English. "Ich wasche mich" = "I wash" (not "I wash myself" — unless you're emphasizing it). "Ich fühle mich gut" = "I feel good" (not "I feel myself good"). Only use a reflexive pronoun when the meaning truly requires it.

Common Pronoun Mistakes

These are the pronoun errors that trip up learners most often:

MistakeCorrectWhy
"Me and him went to the store.""He and I went to the store."Subject position needs subject pronouns
"Between you and I""Between you and me"After prepositions, use object pronouns
"Everyone should bring their book""Everyone should bring their book"Actually correct in modern English!
"Give it to John and I""Give it to John and me"After "to" (preposition), use "me"
"Theirselves""Themselves"There is no word "theirselves"
Tip: Quick test for "and I" vs "and me": remove the other person. "John and me went" → "Me went" (wrong!) → "I went" → so it's "John and I went." "Give it to John and I" → "Give it to I" (wrong!) → "Give it to me" → so it's "Give it to John and me."
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