🪞 Spanish Reflexive Verbs

Verbs where the subject does the action to themselves — pronouns, conjugation, and placement

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What Are Reflexive Verbs?

A reflexive verb describes an action that the subject performs on itself. In English we sometimes say "I wash myself" or "she dressed herself," but these constructions are optional. In Spanish, reflexive verbs are everywhere and the reflexive pronoun is mandatory. Reflexive verbs are listed in the dictionary with -se attached to the infinitive: lavarse (to wash oneself), vestirse (to get dressed), levantarse (to get up). The -se tells you the verb is reflexive.

Reflexive PronounUsed WithExample
meyoyo me lavo (I wash myself)
tetú te lavas (you wash yourself)
seél / ella / ustedél se lava (he washes himself)
nosnosotros / nosotrasnosotros nos lavamos (we wash ourselves)
seellos / ellas / ustedesellos se lavan (they wash themselves)
Tip: The reflexive pronoun always matches the subject. Think of it as a mirror — the action bounces back to the person doing it.

Conjugating Reflexive Verbs

Reflexive verbs conjugate exactly like their non-reflexive counterparts — you just place the correct reflexive pronoun before the conjugated verb. Here are two common reflexive verbs fully conjugated in the present tense. Notice that vestirse has an e→i stem change.

Personlavarse (to wash oneself)vestirse (to get dressed)
yome lavome visto
te lavaste vistes
él / ella / ustedse lavase viste
nosotros / nosotrasnos lavamosnos vestimos
ellos / ellas / ustedesse lavanse visten
Yo me lavo las manos antes de comer.I wash my hands before eating.
Tip: With reflexive verbs, Spanish uses the definite article (las manos) instead of a possessive (mis manos) for body parts and clothing. "Me lavo las manos" literally means "I wash myself the hands."

Common Reflexive Verbs

These 12 reflexive verbs are among the most frequently used in everyday Spanish. Many describe daily routines, making them essential for beginner conversation.

VerbMeaningExample
levantarseto get upMe levanto a las siete.
acostarseto go to bedNos acostamos tarde.
despertarseto wake upMe despierto temprano.
ducharseto showerElla se ducha por la mañana.
peinarseto comb one's hairMe peino antes de salir.
llamarseto be calledMe llamo Carlos.
sentarseto sit downSiéntate aquí.
irseto leave / to go awayMe voy a las ocho.
quedarseto stayNos quedamos en casa.
sentirseto feelMe siento bien hoy.
divertirseto have funNos divertimos mucho.
preocuparseto worryNo te preocupes.
Tip: Many of these verbs also exist without -se but with a different meaning. "Llamar" means "to call (someone)," but "llamarse" means "to be called / to call oneself." Always check whether the -se version changes the meaning.

Pronoun Placement

The reflexive pronoun can go in different positions depending on the verb form. With a conjugated verb, it goes before. With infinitives and gerunds, it can attach to the end or go before the helping verb. Both positions are equally correct and commonly used.

SituationOption 1Option 2
Conjugated verbMe lavo. (before verb)— (only option)
InfinitiveQuiero lavarme. (attached)Me quiero lavar. (before helping verb)
Gerund (progressive)Estoy lavándome. (attached)Me estoy lavando. (before helping verb)
Affirmative command¡Lávate! (attached)— (only option)
Negative command¡No te laves! (before verb)— (only option)
Quiero ducharme. / Me quiero duchar.I want to shower. (both sentences mean exactly the same thing)
Tip: When the pronoun attaches to the end, you may need to add a written accent to maintain the original stress: lavando → lavándome, lava → lávate. This is a spelling rule, not a pronunciation change.

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